Belts matter enough to drive us, but not enough to define us.

Belts in Jiu-Jitsu are strange.
They will never be consistent through every gym.
There are no “major guidelines” that BJJ follows.

  • Some gyms promote on time served.
  • Some on ability and comparison throughout the club.
  • Everyone has their own idea of what a “blue belt” is.

And yet… at the same time… belts mean absolutely nothing at all.


The Knighting Effect

Getting your next belt does feel like being “knighted”.
Suddenly you’ve got a shiny new title, and everyone congratulates you like you’ve just been handed a gift from the gods.

“Ahh… Sir Purple Belt…”

But are you actually any better than you were five minutes ago?

Not really.
You’re the same grappler you were the night before, just with a bit more dye in your belt.


The Humbling Tradition

At this point — just to keep balance in the force — usually (but not always) one of the now same belt (but much further) or higher belts will come along to “welcome” you.

A humbling experience for all.
(Of course, this should always be done in the most humorous and non-aggressive way possible, to help with the welcoming experience!)

I’ve come to realise: the belt changes colour faster than your skills do.


So Why Do Belts Matter?

Because they give us milestones.

They remind us that all those hours sweating, struggling, and wondering “Am I actually getting any better at this? Because it doesn’t feel like it” actually mean something.

  1. Don’t compare yourself to others.
  2. Trust that your coaches are watching.
  3. One day you look down… and your belt has just changed colour.

That small moment gives us motivation and confidence.


The Real Truth

The belt is not what makes you good.
It’s the journey to earn it.

If you stop, so do your skills.

Every roll.
Every mistake.
Every small technical win.
That’s where the real growth happens.

So don’t get caught up in chasing belts you didn’t even know existed before you started.


Belts Mean Nothing… and Everything

The belt doesn’t make you “Dangerous” or a “Weapon.”
Often promotions just mean people go harder during sparring time.
So you’d better have the skills to back it up.

Better to be a white belt rolling like a black belt,
than a black belt rolling like a white.

Knowledge, resilience, and mat-time sharpen you far more than the dye around your waist.
That’s what makes you dangerous — regardless of belt or size.

I’ve seen blue belts tap black belts.
I’ve watched world-class competitors get pushed by hungry new belts.

So yes — belts mean nothing… and everything.


Final Word

Wear your belt proudly.
Then get back to work.

Blue belt might make you feel like a “knight” — but it’s only the first step on a very long road to black.

And even then, it never becomes easier.
You just get more successful outcomes.

See you on the mats.

Comments

  • Phelps
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    Very nice Aaron. I think Simon is paying for you to use his photos though lol

    I’m enjoying the journey and just hope I will be able to keep it up.

    Thank you guys for everything.

    15 September 2025

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